A Final Trip..

Suostei សួស្តីសម្លាញ់ everyone! That’s Khmer for “hello”, and yes I did use an online translation tool for that because I don’t speak Khmer and it still might be slightly wrong – apologies to the Cambodian people. I use the Cambodian language simply because next week I’m heading back overseas and heading to Cambodia again for … More A Final Trip..

Welcome to Bangcock!

Sawadee Khrap you big bunch of homos! First up, I will hereby only refer to Bangkok as “Bangcock”, simply because I’m childish. Every time someone says “Bangcock” I can’t help but chuckle to myself. It’s funny, right?! It’s a funny name for my favorite city in the world, after my home town of Melbourne, of course, as … More Welcome to Bangcock!

A Painful Heartbreak

Relationships are cunts. Please excuse my french, I’m in no state to watch my mouth today. We all know it. Don’t kid yourself thinking you’ll be with your partner forever because forever really doesn’t exist. Things end. There’s always an ending in this day and age. Soo it seems. Yes, you might be right in … More A Painful Heartbreak

Anatomy of a Hookup

This post is not for asexuals. I repeat, not for asexuals. If any of you are reading this, please check out my other posts…now. Hookups are in some way an important and necessary factor in the gay community. Well, to most of us anyway. Most guys that I know. And when it comes to man-on-man … More Anatomy of a Hookup

Open Relationships – Do we all need to be open to the idea?

You can see a slightly shorter version of this blog on SameSame here. I’ve discussed this topic with a number of guys over the last few months and this seems to be the topic that most really want to follow. I could tell in their voices that it’s a somewhat touchy subject matter and no-one … More Open Relationships – Do we all need to be open to the idea?

“We want equality! And we want it now!”….but do you really practise equality?

Firstly; don’t get me wrong – I believe everyone deserves equality no matter your race, skin colour, sexual preference, eye colour, dick size, what type of car you drive, body type and what brand of clothing you wear, whether it be Asos, a Myer brand or Louis Vuitton….however, my ex works for Louis Vuitton and … More “We want equality! And we want it now!”….but do you really practise equality?

Is Grindr addictive? Or is it just me that’s addicted?

Grindr. The mostly all male – I swear I’ve seen some women on there – app that seems like every gay guy has. Every gay that’s single, in an open relationship or cheating on his partner that is. Yes, generalisation, but that’s what it feels like. I’m not limiting this to Grindr, I’m sure this … More Is Grindr addictive? Or is it just me that’s addicted?

More than just sex, please! Do guys actually go on dates anymore?

I recently wrote an email to Matt Akersten from SameSame with my frustrations on the lack of gay dating that seems to be going on in the gay world. It feels like it’s either a casual fuck or it’s just mates. Is commitment a thing of the past? You can see the original SameSame post … More More than just sex, please! Do guys actually go on dates anymore?