First of all, I’ve had this post in mind for many..many..many..many months, if not a year, but I wasn’t too sure how to present it, discuss the issue [because it is an issue], or make it worthwhile for people to respond or even give it some actual-decent-thought – heaven forbid making an actual change to … More Kindr Gays – A Reality or Wishful Thinking?
I wrote this post a week or two ago and I only just remembered I didn’t post it…because I was 41,000 feet in the air and I didn’t have any wifi [yes, shock horror to all those judgmental gays, I was on an international flight with a budget airline – I can hear the gasps … More Roles We Play & The Selfish Other Half
Suostei សួស្តីសម្លាញ់ everyone! That’s Khmer for “hello”, and yes I did use an online translation tool for that because I don’t speak Khmer and it still might be slightly wrong – apologies to the Cambodian people. I use the Cambodian language simply because next week I’m heading back overseas and heading to Cambodia again for … More A Final Trip..
Hola all! No, I have not become Spanish, I’m simply stepping out of my comfort zone for this post and opening up a little more than I previously have. Not many of you will know this but over the last twenty-four months I’ve been writing a story. Not for Life, Love & Lube, but my … More Within These Walls: A Memoir
At what stage at the end of a relationship is it safe and acceptable to move on. Like, really move on – like a re-download Grindr and Tinder [yet again] and move on? I’ve been single again for a month now and I’m having debates with myself about whether it’s time to suck up all … More Life Does Goes On, I know..
Sawadee Khrap you big bunch of homos! First up, I will hereby only refer to Bangkok as “Bangcock”, simply because I’m childish. Every time someone says “Bangcock” I can’t help but chuckle to myself. It’s funny, right?! It’s a funny name for my favorite city in the world, after my home town of Melbourne, of course, as … More Welcome to Bangcock!
Relationships are cunts. Please excuse my french, I’m in no state to watch my mouth today. We all know it. Don’t kid yourself thinking you’ll be with your partner forever because forever really doesn’t exist. Things end. There’s always an ending in this day and age. Soo it seems. Yes, you might be right in … More A Painful Heartbreak
I love art. I really do. But I’m certainly no art-wanker. I managed an art store in Newtown, Sydney for years and I have artwork around my house that continues to inspire me on a daily basis. I think art means different things to different people but I think we should all have art upon … More Upon these Walls: Bigger, Brighter and Better!
First of all, I’d like to point out that I’ve never been the best gay. Saying this probably makes me sound even worse than I already feel but it’s true. I’m a shit one. I’ve never been one to attend a rally for gay rights, I’ve never held up signs screaming for equality and I … More My deepest apologies to the LGBTIQA community
I recently met a self-confessed size-queen. It got me asking a few questions, to myself, but I was unable to answer them all. It also got me asking whether or not the self-confessed size-queen measured his own dick and took that into account before judging others. Or is this just merely another preference? Now, first … More One Size Fits All…Apparently NOT!