Tonight I met up with a guy for a drink that I met and started chatting with on Grindr thismorning and I’ve realised I’m either crap at this whole thing or I really have no fucking idea what gays want these days. To be honest, I’d say it’s a bit of both. And to be … More Auditions, Auditions, Auditions!
I don’t want all my posts to be about gay shit. Being gay is only a small part of who I am and lots of you don’t know me outside the bedroom soo today I’m going to write about something else. I love film and I love TV. I went to film school back in … More Stranger Things…a different kind of post.
UPDATE: This post was featured on SameSame on Saturday 16th July 2016 in edited form and you can view it here. I strongly believe that not everyone gets tested as often as they should. I’ve even got friends, some gay, that admit to never being tested. Like, ever. Yes, never ever! And they are my age … More Condoman..we meet yet again!
Soo I’ve been back living in Sydney for a few weeks now and it’s going well. Living in Dulwich Hill in the Inner West, my old stomping ground, I’m right near lots of my friends, some within walking distance. I’ve already started a job and left, due to really bad management and lets just say … More It’s Sydney bitch and…I’m back!
This post is not for asexuals. I repeat, not for asexuals. If any of you are reading this, please check out my other posts…now. Hookups are in some way an important and necessary factor in the gay community. Well, to most of us anyway. Most guys that I know. And when it comes to man-on-man … More Anatomy of a Hookup
I’m thinking a move back to Sydney is on the cards. While I never felt like I fit into the Sydney gay scene with all the ruffles, skirts, squeals, drama, glitter, bitching, backstabbing, judging (and the list goes on…) I’ve come to realise it’s all about how you feel about yourself and the people you … More Sydney, I hear you calling..
You can see a slightly shorter version of this blog on SameSame here. I’ve discussed this topic with a number of guys over the last few months and this seems to be the topic that most really want to follow. I could tell in their voices that it’s a somewhat touchy subject matter and no-one … More Open Relationships – Do we all need to be open to the idea?
Firstly; don’t get me wrong – I believe everyone deserves equality no matter your race, skin colour, sexual preference, eye colour, dick size, what type of car you drive, body type and what brand of clothing you wear, whether it be Asos, a Myer brand or Louis Vuitton….however, my ex works for Louis Vuitton and … More “We want equality! And we want it now!”….but do you really practise equality?
I’ve had a few conversations with some mates lately and it’s got me thinking about my role in the bedroom and whether or not you can just stick to one role – top or bottom or should we all be somewhat versatile? Because I class myself as a “top”, always have and I thought I always … More TOP / BTM vs VERSATILE?
Grindr. The mostly all male – I swear I’ve seen some women on there – app that seems like every gay guy has. Every gay that’s single, in an open relationship or cheating on his partner that is. Yes, generalisation, but that’s what it feels like. I’m not limiting this to Grindr, I’m sure this … More Is Grindr addictive? Or is it just me that’s addicted?